So today Brian has spent some time in the angry stage of those Rancho levels. He is frustrated having to stay at the hospital and that he isn't allowed to do whatever he wants (because it's unsafe) and today he started to get really irritated and started some name calling. This is all totally normal and a part of his brain healing, however, it doesn't make it any less hurtful. This is something I want to make sure everyone keeps in mind when/if they visit. Hopefully it doesn't happen with visitors, but I can't be certain that it won't. Just remember he doesn't mean it and he is saying mean and inappropriate things because he is irritated, frustrated, and easily confused.
He saw OT today and they had him walk down the hall to evaluate his walking. She was pretty impressed, but definitely said he isn't stable enough to walk on his own. Which is not new information. His torso tends to move a bit quicker than his feet, which leads to his instability. They will continue to work with him on that and help him to regain that coordination and balance. She did give us a small beach ball that we can use to play catch or kick back and forth to try and help him have something to do that is a bit more exciting, but still safe for him since he could do this while sitting in the chair. He did get bored with this very quickly though. 😕
Brian is very restless (especially in the evenings) and he is ready to go home, which in terms of his recovery, he is definitely not ready for. I am hoping we can start getting him a bit more therapy during the day to help with his restlessness.
In summation, today was a harder day for me. Brian had a pretty normal day for him, but it was a hard one for me, personally. But it's all okay and part of the process. Tomorrow is another day and we will make the best of it!
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Heavenly Father, in the midst of Nicole's caregiving journey, please guide her and give her strength. The task of caring for others is both a privilege and a challenge, and we acknowledge the need for your strength in our own lives.
ReplyDeleteGrant her the physical strength needed for the demands of each day. When fatigue sets in and weariness takes hold, be her source of energy and renewal. Help her to prioritize self-care, recognizing that caring for herself is an essential part of caring for others.
Lord, we face uncertainties and challenges in this role, and I ask for your guidance and wisdom. When doubt creeps in, grant Nicole confidence. When faced with difficult decisions, provide clarity. In moments of weakness, be her strength. Amen!
We all love you both! Please reach out for support and know we are with you all!! ❤️🙏🏼
Sending you a hug, you’re doing a wonderful job and are providing so much care and love for him, more than most would ever be able to. I’ve thought over and over how lucky he is to have had you in this. ♥️
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